Airport Disease: Enter Airport, Exit Manners

The man is very upset in the waiting room at the gate to the airport. A young guy, a traveler, waiting for a plane to fly out against the background of a large window, is very sad.
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Recently, as I was passing through airport security, another passenger had a go at me for no particular reason.

This person was retrieving her items from the tray after it had passed through the X-ray scanner. My tray came out directly behind hers, so I stood beside her and started doing the same. As I was doing this, the following trays came out of the X-ray machine and were being mechanically pushed along the conveyer belt. This pushed my tray further along the conveyer belt, and in turn hers as well. Since, you know, that’s how conveyer belts work!

She turned to me and rudely yelled at me as if I was intentionally trying to push her out of the way. I calmly explained that I was not, and said “sorry” in an attempt to de-escalate the situation. She had no interest in hearing anything I had to say and stormed off in a huff.

A lady in a Virgin Australia uniform was clearing security behind me and witnessed the interaction. After the woman had left, this Virgin Australia employee quietly turned to me and said: “We call this ‘airport disease’. It happens to us all the time – people arrive at the airport, get stressed out, and completely forget their manners. Don’t take it personally.” She then wished me a great day and we continued on our separate ways.

There’s something about airports…

Unfortunately, this Virgin Australia staff member was spot on. This kind of thing happens all the time in airports. Airport disease is real. I’m sure you’ve witnessed it too.

I spend a lot of time in airports, so I don’t personally find them particularly stressful… most of the time. But I can see how the unfamiliarity and pressure of an airport environment might especially heighten the nerves of someone who doesn’t fly a lot.

I’ve previously worked in retail in Australia. A small percentage of customers can be extremely rude for no particular reason. And that’s outside of an airport environment!

Add long queues, disruptions and flight cancellations into the equation, and unfortunately, you can see why the aviation industry felt the need to launch a “No More Carry On” campaign a few years back to try to reduce the amount of abuse directed at frontline airport workers. Those frontline staff must really cop it when things go wrong and people want to vent.

Airport signage from the 2021 "No More Carry On" campaign in Australia
Airport signage from the 2021 “No More Carry On” campaign. Image: Jetstar.

Please, be kind to each other

While I can understand that airports stress some people out, this doesn’t excuse rudeness or bad behaviour.

I feel for airport staff, who must cop abuse from the flying public on a daily basis. It’s uncalled for, and achieves nothing. In fact, if your flight has been disrupted, it’s almost certainly not the fault of the frontline employee you’re dealing with – but that same employee might just be the person who’s in the best position to help you.

Have you seen an example of “airport disease” lately? Share your thoughts and experiences on the AFF forum…

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It's linked to fewer people attending Mass or other religious observances., sadly.

However I have seen travellers justifiably upset at security staff who make silly decisions, such as occasionally removing empty water bottles for no supportable reason. Yes, they have a stressful job, and airports don't help by sometimes having insufficient 'lanes' for the volume of passengers at busier times.

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It's linked to fewer people attending Mass or other religious observances., sadly.

Drawing a long bow there I think.

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Some people are just jerks, no apology or placation will work and they’re best given a very wide berth.i suspect they’re the same driving, at the supermarket…

Airports can be dehumanising places even for frequent flyers and exacerbate the stress or anxiety of travelling and coping with crowds and noise. The staff dealing with thousands of pax daily can be worn down by sometimes at best gruff responses or ignoring greetings, so hats off to those who can still keep the cheer.

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I think I just get stressed and that might make me less patient. The airport is also a collection of humanity that you'd likely never come across on daily life. So it's out of the comfort zone. You might worry about delayed departures and connections, the thought of flying itself, and so many different interpretations of the security requirements. Take off your belt. Shoes. Watch and so on. People having no idea. Kids screaming and running around. Everything is so out of place from normal.

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Some people are just jerks, no apology or placation will work and they’re best given a very wide berth.i suspect they’re the same driving, at the supermarket…

Airports can be dehumanising places even for frequent flyers and exacerbate the stress or anxiety of travelling and coping with crowds and noise. The staff dealing with thousands of pax daily can be worn down by sometimes at best gruff responses or ignoring greetings, so hats off to those who can still keep the cheer.

Some people are just jerks… yes… on both sides.

Even some of the calmest passengers are severely tired by airport staff.

I was waiting for a flight last week to MEL. Inbound plane arrives and all of a sudden the gate information switches from ‘Melbourne’ to ‘Adelaide’.

A couple pax picked up on this and asked the gate agent ‘what’s happened to Melbourne?’

The gate agent replied ‘we’re just disembarking this flight and then we’ll board Melbourne’

The passenger looked at the screen again, and said ‘but what’s happening to Melbourne?’

The gate agent looked back ‘I SAID … WHEN WE’VE FINISHED GETTING PASSENGERS OFF THIS FLIGHT… WE WILL BOARD MELBOURNE. WE WILL TELL YOU WHEN ITS TIME’.

Loud and slow.

Even when the gate agent finally realised what everyone else knew, that the flight must have changed, they didn't apologise.

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Not really surprising but always jarring

A convergence place for the gambit of at one end of the spectrum - DYKWIA, also the dead tired from travel or getting up early for travel through to first time travellers totally out of their depth and in a real tizz, and the usual just plain rude people in everyday life.

Even frequent flyers get anxious - fingers crossed my bag isn't over the limit, how long the security queue will be, is my flight on time, did I read the gate lounge number right, where did I put my ticket, did I forget my charger/passport/whatever, I didn't take my belt off the last 7 times I went through here!!!

Don’t envy the staff there at all; 10,000s of travellers passing through, nearly all in a desperate hurry to get through the process even if their flight is not for 3 hrs and of course “these unnecessary rules shouldn't apply to me”.

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Even when the gate agent finally realised what everyone else knew, that the flight must have changed, they didn't apologise.

Seems a case of when you can only do 10 things at a time and the 11th one hits, you regress to the basic lizard brain. Like talking to someone as though they’re a simpleton will help and you no longer have situational awareness. That agent probably went home and vented on a WhatsApp chat that some people are so <perjorative>.

(And I don’t think it’s as simple as ‘get another job if you can’t cope)

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My Teen is currently working at the local airport (retaily/food service kind of job) and comes home with some appalling stories of how customers treat them at times!

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generally speaking everything is about routine and familiarity. The more comfortable you are with what you're doing, the more you can feel less stress about the situation. Airports however generally speaking are the opposite of that for most people.

FF may find their home airport just as routine or normal (I'm sure many of us here can navigate SYD/MEL terminals half asleep or know which coffee shops to hit). But even for FF when we travel to new unfamiliar airports it can be daunting. Like I was unexpectedly dropped into DOH the other day. Without knowing how it's laid out, I have no real sense of how long it'll take me to get to my gate area, where the shopping / lounges / facilities all are. Contrast that with Changi - having gone up and down back and forth (thanks stamp rallies), I have a very strong sense of familiarity with where just about everything is at Changi.

These kinds of things adds up especially when things go wrong, even the little things in life.As for the staff working at the airport, they are probably copping this everyday and theres only so much social battery you have everyday before you need to recharge.

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The airports themselves don't help the situation.

Many airports lack a simple sign telling me whether i) my laptop should be in or out of the bag, ii) my shoes need to be on or off, iii) families have to go through together or can split up to take shorter lines etc.

Knowing what to expect would greatly ease the anxiety !

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