A psychologists perspective - jumping through hoops in the hope of other's approval is a conditional based love. Let people be who they are. Cultures, customs, traditions and more importantly the way that we feel define and assist in moulding who we become, what we perceive as 'right' and 'wrong'. Egos - I know better! Social codification - do this or else! In this case you get kicked out lol An opportunity to mingle and perhaps strike up a conversation with someone else outside the hallowed doors of some QF lounge. If you want to wrestle every single rascal/problem/issue/drama trauma to the ground and kill it, go right ahead and experience those aspects that are lower on the emotional scale. It will get you every time. Find others like you and establish a mutual self appreciation society! You risk becoming rigid in your thinking and feelings creating a focus and momentum travelling faster than any passenger airliner. Best to stand out of the way, or get what you deserve. Be authentic to yourself, you can control the way you feel when you believe in yourself. But what would I know? Soul education with a pocket full of pringles, I'm happy and embrace all the other feelings too, unconditionally. Do what you want! I don't police others, I'd rather hear their story. It's a choice - controlling others will affect your well being.