I have a bit of a foot in both camps on this one, with the decision ultimately hinging on the quality of the lounge.
QF First lounge anywhere - yes please. EK first lounge, double yes please. Regular EK lounge yes please. JAL lounges - hmm not so much. Sri Lankan J Lounge Colombo - nope, no way, get f#cked, f#ck off! And I am keen to branch out into some other international lounge offerings when travels permit.
QF Domestic J lounges are usually pretty good, although they can be overcrowded. And the last couple of times I’ve visited the QP (if I have too many guests for J lounge) have been good too. I’ve noticed new carpet and new chairs in MEL J and CBR J recently, which is an improvement.
I like being able to get free coffee, and also free water - I really resent having to buy bottled water when I’m thirsty. The food offerings in most lounges are no worse than the public offerings, and sometimes better. I like being able to get a shower if I’ve had a sweaty day or long commute.
But these days, with the upgrades made to many of the terminal public toilets, I’d use those in preference to the old yucky ones in SYD Domestic, and especially as most of the public ones still have paper hand towels

