The correct pronoun is me instead of myself. However, if most folks use 'wrong grammar', that makes it the new grammar. It's not like the GrammarGod came to earth 50,000 years ago and said THOU SHALL ONLY USE THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE IN THIS MANNER OR ONE SHALL BE DAMNNED TO AN ETERNITY OF HELL!
Therefore, I encourage poor grammar, so that we can break free of the oldskool system and communicate in a much clearer sense.
Back on topic - poor attitude and lounge staff go hand in hand. Of the thousands of times I've entered a lounge, over 70% of the time there is not a 'warm welcome'. Lower expectations and everything will be just fine