Since there are some AFF Ponant experts here, I thought it might be good to have a Ponant thread
Can you elaborate a bit more about the small ship vibe and the how certain attitudes can enhance or detract from that vibe?
@RooFlyer has mentioned an important distinction to observe about Ponant: the "classic" cruise vs expedition. I've only been on expeditions. The small ship vibe on expeditions is about seeing new and different things, and interacting with the other pax and crew about the new and different things everyone has been seeing. I also agree with his comments about the other pax you tend to encounter on smaller ships.
Since my first expedition to Antarctica with Ponant, I've approached each subsequent expedition with the attitude that I am incredibly privileged to be going places and seeing things that are outside the ken of most travellers. I am enthusiastic about the journey and the exploration. I know I will meet interesting people among the other pax and crew, and making those new connections will enhance the experience. If you are on a small ship with a majority of enthusiasts, whether they be French or from elsewhere, that attitude will make the trip more meaningful and enjoyable.
On the other hand, if there are malcontents and disaffected in the passenger manifest, that will detract from the vibe and on a small ship, it can sometimes be difficult to avoid them. On our French Polynesia expedition, there was a party of six or so pax who were labouring under the misapprehension (which made me wonder whether they'd done any reading beforehand about the Paul Gauguin and the 14 day trip around French Polynesia) that they were on a Cunard liner in the Queen's Grill. They were unhappy and would tell anyone who glanced in their direction why they were so unhappy. Similarly, on my last Antarctica trip, there was a group of Americans who sort of took over the observation deck bar and loudly told anyone who glanced their way why Ponant wasn't as good as [insert name of virtually every other cruise line on which they'd been]. This is while dramatic scenes of nature are unfolding around them, such as humpback whales in feeding pods around and under the ship, and icebergs of incredible shape and size all around.
Now that I've been on a few different Ponant expeditions, this is my formula for making them successful for me (bearing in mind I am extroverted, speak some French and German, eat and drink anything and everything, and mix easily with people):
1. Let the maître d' know you will sit anywhere at dinner in the main restaurant. Do this for a couple of nights so the maître d' gets to know you're a safe pair of hands, and then if you don't want to dine with others sometimes, s/he will look after you with a nice table.
2. Try and get to know the cruise director and hotel manager.
3. Engage with the expedition team.
4. Sign up for any "dine with..." and wine tasting events on offer.
5. If there seems to be a shortage of "dine with..." events, create your own - put together a table of four and invite two expedition team members or the cruise director, hotel manager, doctor, members of the entertainment team etc. We've had some very memorable dinners this way.
6. Do all the activities and excursions. I am a scuba diver and my French Polynesia and eastern Indonesian expeditions offered diving. This of course gave me access to a recreationally like-minded group of people and it also meant there was always someone to have a coffee or drink with, and the divers invited each other and the diving team to dinners, which added to the social interest of those trips.
I mentioned in
@RooFlyer's trip report the importance of having a good senior team on board. This is where I can see how Ponant experiences can differ greatly and might fall apart. I've been very fortunate on each of my expeditions to have had excellent senior staff onboard who were clearly doing a great job with leading the crew to deliver an exceptional experience for the guests.