It is for this reason that I never ask for upgrades at the counter!!!!
I never expect one. The emotional investment is too high. If it happens, then it's a nice bonus. Otherwise i'd just end up bitter if i keep checking Sabre for loadings, endlessly speculating etc. That said my parents and I did have fun watching the upgrade list at the gate when we were in the US, betting each other on whether the next person would clear the list. :mrgreen: