Not that you really need my advice, you seem to have your act together regardless of the stress you are under. 
If it were me, focus on the two of you and doing whats best for you and your husbands health and welfare and deal with the rest when things calm down and you have your support network around you.
Just make sure (as you already have been doing), keep TI update date with what do are up to so they can’t claim you acted without their knowledge.
If it were me, focus on the two of you and doing whats best for you and your husbands health and welfare and deal with the rest when things calm down and you have your support network around you.
Just make sure (as you already have been doing), keep TI update date with what do are up to so they can’t claim you acted without their knowledge.

