Final reflections:
Success!
My one criterion for measuring success on this holiday was whether my mother enjoyed it. And she had a
wonderful time. The flight in, the views, the food, the water, the lakes, mountains, the tours we did, the shopping … she enjoyed every minute of it. And she got through more, with more energy in the tank, than I expected. As I wrote above, she began the week with more than a little anxiety and apprehension. But as the week went on, she grew in both confidence and enjoyment, and she was increasingly keen to maximise her time here.
She loved it all.
And it was a joy for me too. It was a joy to be able to spend this time with her and to be able to facilitate a genuinely enjoyable experience. Most, if not all, of my hunches about what she would enjoy, paid off. She didn’t
quite enjoy the Kiwi Park as much as I expected she would … but she still really enjoyed most of it. And all the other experiences were unequivocal winners. It goes without saying, too, that I enjoyed simply spending the time with her and seeing her so happy.
The icing on the cake was that I genuinely enjoyed being back in Queenstown too. It is one of my favourite parts of the world (this was my seventh time there, after all) but it was also good to revisit some things which I would not have done again if my mother had not been there – the Walter Peak trip, the Skyline and restaurant, and the Kiwi Park, for example. All were great experiences both the first and the second times!
And of course it’s not possible to get enough of Milford Sound. I would have spread our visit over two days, but we did it the way that my mother wanted to, and we both had an amazing, if tiring, day. Being at Milford in the rain truly is special.
Would I like to go back to Queenstown? Of course! Believe it or not, after seven visits there are still things for me (and my wife) that have not been ticked off the list. Chief among them is zip-lining in Glenorchy, and visiting Doubtful Sound. And I can never have enough Ferg. Watch this space!
One more thing:
I never thought I’d ever be in a position to say this, but I’m done with travel for a while.
I’m acutely aware of how phenomenally privileged I am to be able to write that. Surely only the top one percent of the top one percent could have done what I’ve done this year: four overseas trips, all for pleasure. Three of them in the past three months.
But that’s enough for me, at least for this year. This has been my fourth Trip Report of the year, and I hope and expect it’ll be my last! I visit my mother in Sydney once every four weekends, so I have those short hops coming up. But as for flying overseas, I’m done for a while. I want to be home for a bit.
But, again, I can’t believe how privileged and blessed I am to be in a position to even think that. Travel is a joy, a blessing, a delight, a wonder. It refreshes me like nothing else refreshes me. I’ve loved the experiences I’ve had, the things I’ve done, the places I’ve visited, the people I’ve met. And it’s something that only the
very privileged few can do – at least to the extent that I have this year. Even the worst airport lounge and the most uncomfortable economy class flight are not things that should be taken for granted.
There have been so many highlights this year: seeing Space Shuttles and Command Modules up close, snorkelling with manta rays, experiencing the people and the countryside in northern England, seeing countless stunning works of art and other priceless artefacts in the flesh, Broadway musicals, and of course, showing my mother the best of Queenstown and the surrounding area. So many highlights. But if you want to know
the highlight in my mind:
it’s this.
Thanks for tagging along with me during this TR and (if you have been) my previous TR’s this year. I write for pleasure, and writing these TRs has been an awful lot of fun which has added to my enjoyment of the trips.
I look forward to meeting a lot of you at the AFF gathering in November!