As a P1 I send feedback (positive mostly

) via the SST and theyseem happy-ish to pass it on to inflight or whoever
I would comment that re the QF9 experience would a word to the CSM be appropriate in flight, or maybe at the end? I don't know it's a difficult one...
I've usually found QF F to be outstanding service wise - warm, friendly(well not TOO friendly), laid back yes but I personally like that without the "stiffness" some other carriers seem to think F passengers demand, or massive fawning that some others employ - which to me puts me off - I'm not the King, so don't bow and scrrape like I am. Everyone's different with their expectations and that's half the problem. I think the real art of customer service is to read your customer well enough to find that sweet spot to know what level they seem most comfortable with.
re FM's SQ experience - I think it boils down to 3 factors - hard product, soft product (eg: F&B) and service standards. I find QF does fairly well with the hard product (the suite is still pretty comfortable despite it's age now - even when compared to SQ Suites-also about the same vintage-and EK or CX. SQ "new" F on the 77W for example is newer and pretty nice, but also a different product imho). Soft product I feel SQ(for example) beats QF - food and bev is superior - specially some food choices out of SIN (eg: BTC), choices of wines and the 2 French bubbles is outstanding-and consistent compared to the QF lottery.... and the personal service levels? This is very subjective to me. As above, some carriers will treat F pax very differently. TG is a master of this IMHO... they do a good job with what they have, but there's a fawning there. I prefer the QF style service. SQ's famously "robotic" service has improved over the years to my way of thinking(my last SQ F flight was a year ago) and they were very good, but I also find SQ to lax a flexibility that a QF may find.. but that also reflects the society/culture in general I think - very rule based. That's just an observation not having a dig.. I've loved each and every premium SQ/CX/EK/QF/etc flight I've been lucky enough to be on via whichever method of paid fares,upgrades,awards etc. Different styles suit different people, and even then you get variations in crews - and in this regard, the SQ's of this world will do better as they have strict standards - I couldn't imagine a SQ FA forgetting an order or something. Your QF's can be, as we all know well, can be so inconsistent... the base is pretty good, you can get some poor ones, and most are absolutely fantastic.
Still, I think of my last UA F experience (when they served oz with a F cabin on the 744) with the service attitude for a mid flight snack being a "cheeseburger" (!) and OK I tempted fate by asking for it.. the matron basically puts in front of me, on a plate, the FOIL WRAPPED GOOEY MESS with the word "here ya go, honey!"
I'll take "poor" QF any time
