On the other hand, many have also reported that they would like Virgin to stop being so free as such and tighten up in order to attract more of the business crowd where serious means serious. That means less discretion in general.
As I said, refusing the OP access based on rule is one thing, and I believe it was a right thing to do.
So you advocate for less discretion? You advocate for basing things on rules, without deviation? I'm with the OP on this one: a smart business engenders loyalty by giving a little to gain a lot more later. That said, I've been through the OOL VA lounge many times (as a WP though) and have been looked after very well.