My heartfelt condolences to you and your family, garyjohn951.
The fact that such tragic loss has happened, not half a world away, or in another country, but 20kms down the road, is mind-numbing. I, like most of the country, am trying to help with the relief as much as possible, but I still can't comprehend it all, to be honest.
Proves that those little issues that can consume your day-to-day life mean absolutely nothing in comparison.