You have gotten me curious now... If you didn't find the service mentioned bad, what would you consider bad service to be? Is a FA behaving in a polite manner considered "stellar customer service"? Would it have been more realistic to expect rude, unhelpful FA's who failed to do their job properly, and then take anything better than that as a bonus?
On that, what specific differences should I have expected between having an attractive or unattractive FA?
I'm not having a go, I'm just curious as to your differing expectations based on the physical appearance of the crew.
I had mentioned before that I didn't think that the service you reported here was so bad that it warrants too much thought. To me "bad service" runs on a continuum from appalling to slightly unpleasant. I wasn't saying that it wasn't bad, it's just my opinion that it wasn't so bad as to worry much about it.
The actual events that you described could be taken differently by different people. Some like yourself may think it is an example of a terrible FA. Others may not.
No, I don't believe you should go in to the situation expecting "rude, unhelpful FA's". Would this not then influence your behavior, attitude, tone, body language toward the FA's which in turn could create the very situation which you are anticipating (rude, unhelpful FA's).
What I had meant to communicate in my last post was, have a little flexibility. It seems as though you had a narrow set of expectations and beliefs regarding the type of service you would be receiving, and when the FA failed to live up to your expectations - that was it. How did you act toward the FA after the pen incident? Did your opinion about her change? Were you then expecting her to be a rude, unhelpful FA?
I wasn't implying that you should be expecting any difference in service between attractive vs unattractive FA's. I was asking for reasons along the lines of those outlined in the last two paragraphs.
I am sorry if this comes off as rude, I don't intend it to be
