My family lived in Manila for a year when I was a 7 year-old, as my father was sent there for work. During that time, I went to the British School Manila and we did a fair bit of travel around the Philippines.
Since then, I had never actually been back to the Philippines. It was time to change that, and I was particularly looking forward on this trip to revisiting some of the spots I remember from my childhood.
I'm sure I must have realised this to some extent at the time. But looking back now, I can see even more clearly that we lived a very privileged life in the Philippines. During that year we lived in a gated community, in a very nice house with four domestic helpers, and I went to a good private school. Even as a 7 year-old I thought this all felt a bit over the top, and I am very aware that this is not how most people live in the Philippines! It's one of many countries with a huge wealth inequality, where your experience depends greatly on whether or not you have money.
I wanted to visit a local friend who lives in Tagaytay, about a 1-2 hour drive south of Manila. He kindly offered to pick me up from the Belmont Hotel the next morning and drove me to his place, where I stayed a few days.
Leaving Manila:
Getting to Tagaytay:
Tagaytay is one of the spots that my family used to go for short trips during weekends and school holidays. The Australian embassy owned an apartment in one of the buildings in Tagaytay Highlands, and I believe they had some sort of arrangement where Australian expats could book it.
I have great memories from Tagaytay Highlands, and asked my friend if we could go there. He almost laughed, saying "you won't be able to get anywhere near that place unless you own a house there or have an airbnb booking". So, I suggested that I book an airbnb for a night, and invited him and his family to join.
The airbnb ended up being in the exact same building that we stayed in all those years ago, an iconic building called The Belle View. This indeed had an excellent view overlooking the Taal lake and volcano, and was in a really peaceful environment within the Tagaytay Highlands country club.
Getting into Tagaytay Highlands was a bit of a faff, as the airbnb host had to endorse our vehicle and there were various checkpoints. The host also had to endorse us to be able to get a guest pass for the country club, which cost extra money but allowed us to use the various facilities and eat at the restaurants within the Highlands area. This was worth doing, as the restaurants were really good and we enjoyed using some of the facilities like the bowling alley and mini-golf. I have great memories of bowling at that alley as a kid with my brother and friends.
Another thing I did as a kid was ride a donkey up Taal Volcano. Since that volcano erupted in 2020, it's now closed and off-limits to tourists. However, you can do a boat ride on the lake that surrounds the volcano. My friend organised for us to do this, and while I'm not sure how "official" the tour was, it was quite fun. The water on the lake was pretty rough but I guess that's part of the experience!
