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I should say I'm neither often Grumpy nor feel particularly old most of the time, despite fast approaching 80. I so enjoyed reading the recent Mid-Life Crisis thread that I thought another with a similar theme might offer some insights for those fast approaching retirement age.
The first thing to say is I think approaching retirement is about setting expectations and preparing for a changed lifestyle. No matter how much money we have for our latter years, it is a finite amount of money (and/or assets) - no-one really knows how long it will last and whether it will be enough for a comfortable retirement. I'm really not much interested in leaving too much for my kids; they are well equipped to look after themselves. Obviously, I'll help if I can, especially if they run into difficulties but we want to enjoy our retirement and give some to charity if and when we are able. (Such a Boomer statement, I know).
My partner and I have been lucky in that we have both enjoyed reasonably good health all our lives and have had the opportunity to work overseas for the second half of our careers - the UK, China and Singapore mainly - in the same industry. We have also worked on many short term projects all over the world meaning short periods of frantic work for a couple of weeks with maybe months of planning between events.
We have also been lucky in being able to have many years of this project work, at our own pace, after our last full-time positions. My last permanent job ended in 2008 and I finally retired last year so have been able to 'wind down' over 15 years or so. I do not know how anyone could work full time until a Friday afternoon and then face retirement from Monday morning. We have had to adjust to no work gradually so doing this instantly must be extra difficult.
A few hints, especially relating to traveling, but retirement more generally:
Make everyday count.
The first thing to say is I think approaching retirement is about setting expectations and preparing for a changed lifestyle. No matter how much money we have for our latter years, it is a finite amount of money (and/or assets) - no-one really knows how long it will last and whether it will be enough for a comfortable retirement. I'm really not much interested in leaving too much for my kids; they are well equipped to look after themselves. Obviously, I'll help if I can, especially if they run into difficulties but we want to enjoy our retirement and give some to charity if and when we are able. (Such a Boomer statement, I know).
My partner and I have been lucky in that we have both enjoyed reasonably good health all our lives and have had the opportunity to work overseas for the second half of our careers - the UK, China and Singapore mainly - in the same industry. We have also worked on many short term projects all over the world meaning short periods of frantic work for a couple of weeks with maybe months of planning between events.
We have also been lucky in being able to have many years of this project work, at our own pace, after our last full-time positions. My last permanent job ended in 2008 and I finally retired last year so have been able to 'wind down' over 15 years or so. I do not know how anyone could work full time until a Friday afternoon and then face retirement from Monday morning. We have had to adjust to no work gradually so doing this instantly must be extra difficult.
A few hints, especially relating to traveling, but retirement more generally:
- Make sure you have enough credit cards before you retire, especially if you want to accrue FF points. I missed out and now cannot get another rewards card despite the value in my Super Fund.
- Save as many points as you can before you retire and maybe start to limit the number of FF programmes you use. Use any points wisely - its hard to get more. Nothing worse than having a few points in multiple programmes that are just wasted as they cannot be moved or consolidated. Mind you, having no points left allows you to look for better bargains rather than being 'locked' to loyalty.
- Realise that you will not be able to travel forever - we know we might have a few more overseas trips in us, then regional Asian or Pacific holidays and finally, just around Australia (if we are lucky) so we are using our retirement funds more quickly now on the expectation that our outgoings will reduce as we get older - we have no interest in going into a home besides the one we presently live in unless we cannot continue to look after ourselves. Not to mention the price of insurance may make overseas travel uneconomical eventually.
- Look after your health - we have been lucky but how long will that continue.
- Enjoy as many varied experiences as you can to keep the mind active. We volunteer a couple of days a week. I'm not really very sociable but have forced myself to join a couple of groups - like the excellent University of the Third Age (U3A). There is so many things to do in most cities - sporting, artistic, nature, educational, movies etc. - just a matter of maintaining a varied lifestyle.
- Finally, work hard to maintain friendships. Most of my friends are overseas so it is difficult to keep in touch as much as I would like but work hard at keeping in contact.
Make everyday count.
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