You’re right, these parenting years are wonderful but intense, and it’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day without carving out space just to be.
For her, she likes to take her time wandering through shops — not necessarily to buy anything, but just to enjoy the rhythm of it. It’s her version of recharging.
She does have an open offer to take a few days anywhere she likes (points-funded, naturally!), but she is not much of a solo traveller. Maybe the right moment will come, and when it does, I’ll be fully behind her — encouraging her to take that time in whatever way feels right.