Oops, forgot to update this, and we're nearly a month away from our trip! I've since booked some Broadway tickets, our train tickets from Providence to New York and have reached out to some friends who live in/near NYC to see if we can meet up.
I've heard from two friends who recently came back from the States that they are asking more pointed questions at immigration, but I'm hopeful we'll be fine. Perhaps that's my white privilege talking.
One thing I always like to do before a trip is look up fun restaurants that have a theme, but haven't done that for New York yet. If anyone has tips on places to eat, happy to hear them. I am definitely going to have New York style pizza, I figure you can't go there and not have pizza. And maybe bagels, that's quite New York-y right?