I have taken my wife and my mom once, without problems.. you just got to ask nicely and it also depends on how busy they are.. if the lounge is very busy.. they can follow the policy and refuse additional guests..
However like many have said before.. the SYD F Lounge staff are great.. so ask nicely and be prepared to hear No as well.
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