Have never had an issue with VA Priority Boarding, until a really odd interaction last week.
Partner and I were flying SYD>MEL Friday morning. Gate agent was well and truly enforcing the priority lane, but with (what felt like) an unhealthy dash of social profiling thrown in.
As we walked towards the line, we watched a young man try to go through priority but get denied. They then proceeded to remain standing in the cue area. My parter (SG) and I (WP) came up and stood behind but to the side of the young man, so-as to be like “we’re not with him”. The attendant gave us a quick glance (actual turn of the head to our direction, not just flicking their eyes to the side) but didn’t acknowledge us and continued to scan the general line.
After 3-4 general boarding guests scanned through, someone in a suit came up behind us in the priority lane and the agent waved them forward, saying “come through sir”, scanned them and then returned to scanning general. Ultimately we got his attention by politely saying “excuse me” and holding up my digital boarding pass.
Was all fine. I’m the type of person who is like “we all get to the destination at the same time”. And I totally accept we could have said “excuse me” sooner…...but at first we thought we’ll just wait a moment, and it wasn’t until he so specifically called forward the older man in a suit that we realised something intentional was at play. We’re both in our 30’s and were in jeans and t-shirts. Felt very clearly that we didn’t meet the attendant’s idea of who might hold priority or status, which felt pretty gross.