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Several studies suggest driving after 16hrs of being awake equates to a BAC of 0.05The studies say work fatigue is the same as being drunk.
Several studies suggest driving after 16hrs of being awake equates to a BAC of 0.05The studies say work fatigue is the same as being drunk.
I am emotionally and physically wrung out from all this. And there is still a way to go.
Oh that sounds simply awful. She must be tough and I hope recovers well.Talking of roller coasters - we have been on one for the last few days with mum. On Friday she was the best she has been since the stroke. Quite herself and making very slow but noticeable improvements with her left hand. We spent a very happy hour looking at Seat Son’s wedding photos and downloading her favourites and I left the hospital for the first time since the stroke feeling positive about her eventual outcome.
On Saturday, the hospital called to say she had a fever and was a bit unwell. That was an understatement. She had a fever of 39 degrees and was very agitated and quite vague. They started doing blood tests as they suspected an infection. She came in to hospital with a nasty ulcer on her foot that had previously been infected so they thought that would be the source. Or maybe pneumonia. So they did a chest x ray. That was clear. They did a full respiratory panel - clear for Covid, flu, RSV and even rhinovirus. Blood tests though showed high infection markers. Over the course of the day, she really declined so they decided to start broad spectrum IV antibiotics.
Things got worse on Sunday. She had 2 loss of consciousness episodes, but luckily was with staff at the time, who managed to prevent her from any injuries associated with that. So they sent her for a CT scan to see if it was another stroke. Eventually that was ruled out. But she kept declining even more. She was totally out of it. Deeply asleep but more than that - a kind of altered consciousness where she did not respond to anything + they drew blood, changed her cannula, flushed her cannula, inserted a catheter, multiple alarms beeping and no response at all. She just lay there, breathing very shallowly and not moving at all for hours on end. Blood work revealed septicaemia but they still had no idea what the source of infection was. Sent her for an X ray of the foot ulcer to see if it was in the bone. Nope, not that. Started experimenting with different IV antibiotics, but no improvement. Family told to come up and say good byes. When I left her on Sunday night, I was certain I had kissed her goodnight for the last time. I left my phone on all night, expecting the dreaded call.
Further deterioration on Monday. Three different doctors proposing possible infection causes and solutions. More different antibiotics.nothing changed, just this unbelievable deep sleep. They did a CT scan of abdomen as her liver enzymes were “deranged.” Aren’t we all by now. And an ultrasound of her kidneys as urine output was concerningly low. She had multiple severe episodes of bowel incontinence despite wearing a nappy. The poor nurses. Lots of clean up, linen changes. She now has pressure sores. I came home full6 expecting the worst but…
This morning they finally got a culture back that showed it was ecoli urinary tract infection. Multi resistant, but there is an antibiotic that’s effective so they started it and within a coup me of hours mum woke up, became alert and asked for food for the first time in more than 3 days. And a cup of tea. By the time I visited this aftenoon, she was close to normal - tired but alert and in good spirits. eating small amounts of food. Took a video call from Seat Son in Abu Dhabi and totally relished a 1 hr visit from her great granddaughter who is truly the apple of her eye. This is the second medical miracle in this whole debacle.
Of course this has set her stroke recovery back quite a bit bit - 3 days totally bed ridden, still catheterised, not doing anything for herself + has to be fed by someone, have someone hold her drinks for her etc. But she seems to be back with us after literally being at death’s door. The doctors have said she is not out of the woods just yet as she lacks any level of physical resilience, and the bug is nasty and resistant, but that things are looking much better.
Today I took a tray of brownies and a thank you card for all the ward staff, and gave a special mention to the nurse manger for three nurses who went above and beyond in their kind care during this crisis.
I am emotionally and physically wrung out from all this. And there is still a way to go.
Thank you - I do have good support from the family and my friends, several of whom know my mum well.Sepsis and frailty just don't mix.
Can only imagine how hard that last episode has been for you @Seat0B. Hoping you have adequate support.
In any case we will keep listening to everything you have to say.
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Thinking of you at this difficult time @Seat0BTalking of roller coasters - we have been on one for the last few days with mum. On Friday she was the best she has been since the stroke. Quite herself and making very slow but noticeable improvements with her left hand. We spent a very happy hour looking at Seat Son’s wedding photos and downloading her favourites and I left the hospital for the first time since the stroke feeling positive about her eventual outcome.
On Saturday, the hospital called to say she had a fever and was a bit unwell. That was an understatement. She had a fever of 39 degrees and was very agitated and quite vague. They started doing blood tests as they suspected an infection. She came in to hospital with a nasty ulcer on her foot that had previously been infected so they thought that would be the source. Or maybe pneumonia. So they did a chest x ray. That was clear. They did a full respiratory panel - clear for Covid, flu, RSV and even rhinovirus. Blood tests though showed high infection markers. Over the course of the day, she really declined so they decided to start broad spectrum IV antibiotics.
Things got worse on Sunday. She had 2 loss of consciousness episodes, but luckily was with staff at the time, who managed to prevent her from any injuries associated with that. So they sent her for a CT scan to see if it was another stroke. Eventually that was ruled out. But she kept declining even more. She was totally out of it. Deeply asleep but more than that - a kind of altered consciousness where she did not respond to anything + they drew blood, changed her cannula, flushed her cannula, inserted a catheter, multiple alarms beeping and no response at all. She just lay there, breathing very shallowly and not moving at all for hours on end. Blood work revealed septicaemia but they still had no idea what the source of infection was. Sent her for an X ray of the foot ulcer to see if it was in the bone. Nope, not that. Started experimenting with different IV antibiotics, but no improvement. Family told to come up and say good byes. When I left her on Sunday night, I was certain I had kissed her goodnight for the last time. I left my phone on all night, expecting the dreaded call.
Further deterioration on Monday. Three different doctors proposing possible infection causes and solutions. More different antibiotics.nothing changed, just this unbelievable deep sleep. They did a CT scan of abdomen as her liver enzymes were “deranged.” Aren’t we all by now. And an ultrasound of her kidneys as urine output was concerningly low. She had multiple severe episodes of bowel incontinence despite wearing a nappy. The poor nurses. Lots of clean up, linen changes. She now has pressure sores. I came home full6 expecting the worst but…
This morning they finally got a culture back that showed it was ecoli urinary tract infection. Multi resistant, but there is an antibiotic that’s effective so they started it and within a coup me of hours mum woke up, became alert and asked for food for the first time in more than 3 days. And a cup of tea. By the time I visited this aftenoon, she was close to normal - tired but alert and in good spirits. eating small amounts of food. Took a video call from Seat Son in Abu Dhabi and totally relished a 1 hr visit from her great granddaughter who is truly the apple of her eye. This is the second medical miracle in this whole debacle.
Of course this has set her stroke recovery back quite a bit bit - 3 days totally bed ridden, still catheterised, not doing anything for herself + has to be fed by someone, have someone hold her drinks for her etc. But she seems to be back with us after literally being at death’s door. The doctors have said she is not out of the woods just yet as she lacks any level of physical resilience, and the bug is nasty and resistant, but that things are looking much better.
Today I took a tray of brownies and a thank you card for all the ward staff, and gave a special mention to the nurse manger for three nurses who went above and beyond in their kind care during this crisis.
I am emotionally and physically wrung out from all this. And there is still a way to go.
