General Medical issues thread

Our office person was on inflatable donut at the river a few weeks ago with friends. They went really fast. The donut tipped up and she was thrown in the air and ended up perpendicular and entering the water head first. My immediate reaction was Concussion and straight to hospital. She didn't. Went to a physio. Stopped doing exercise. Sore neck and headache that has persisted but she is otherwise driving, working etc. Her GP finally referred her for a CT this afternoon and which picked up a brain bleed and she's now in hospital. Hopefully it's the residual of what she received on impact and not a developing one. She is otherwise fully functional. Waiting for the outcome of more tests. Why won't these youngies listen to us oldies?
They always know better… until they dont
For them it is more stressful to lose your phone charger
 
Looks like FIL is heading for palliative care.
He fell over in the kitchen early on Friday, 5am or so. MIL found him. Called an ambulance and spent most of the day in Emergency. Got the all clear and went home around 6-7pm.

He hasn’t been sleeping well, needs to sit up a lot, probably can’t breathe when he lies down. MIL found him this morning in the kitchen, having taken all of today’s meds and trying to refill the containers, which MIL normally looks after. He was quite agitated and clearly confused. MIL called the GP and palliative care service; ended up calling an ambulance. We went up this evening as he was being transferred from emergency to a ward. One of my SILs says he’s likely to be transferred to a palliative care hospital tomorrow.

He was quite agitated in the room, after arriving the nurses did obs and he had a temp. Couldn’t take panadol, so they gave to him in a drip form.

Oh, and the doctor has advised to cease all medications, except those for pain or comfort.
MIL was rather upset there was no antibiotics for an infected scrape on his knee, I tried to suggest that could be revisited in the morning with the doctor.

They’d both rather he be at home, but I suspect as he’s not sleeping and wandering about at night, he’s at risk of having a nasty fall and MIL wouldn’t want to discover him.

Mr Katie seems somewhat OK, one of his sisters is very upset.
 
Our Assistants hospital check for brain bleed didn't go well. Having surgery this morning for initial drilling to clear one of the areas. It's congealed so may not drain. She may need further surgery depending. Why oh why did she wait.

She's pretty much been WFH since Covid. A single mum of primary school child but has great parent support but in their '70s.
 
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Looks like FIL is heading for palliative care.
He fell over in the kitchen early on Friday, 5am or so. MIL found him. Called an ambulance and spent most of the day in Emergency. Got the all clear and went home around 6-7pm.

He hasn’t been sleeping well, needs to sit up a lot, probably can’t breathe when he lies down. MIL found him this morning in the kitchen, having taken all of today’s meds and trying to refill the containers, which MIL normally looks after. He was quite agitated and clearly confused. MIL called the GP and palliative care service; ended up calling an ambulance. We went up this evening as he was being transferred from emergency to a ward. One of my SILs says he’s likely to be transferred to a palliative care hospital tomorrow.

He was quite agitated in the room, after arriving the nurses did obs and he had a temp. Couldn’t take panadol, so they gave to him in a drip form.

Oh, and the doctor has advised to cease all medications, except those for pain or comfort.
MIL was rather upset there was no antibiotics for an infected scrape on his knee, I tried to suggest that could be revisited in the morning with the doctor.

They’d both rather he be at home, but I suspect as he’s not sleeping and wandering about at night, he’s at risk of having a nasty fall and MIL wouldn’t want to discover him.

Mr Katie seems somewhat OK, one of his sisters is very upset.
Palliative care or more like a nursing home environment?
 
Wife is out of hospital but still not feeling well. And we are extremely confused at the apparent lack of action.

What do we do going forward? Come back to hospital with each new infection. Seriously?

Apparently they want to do a MAG3 test to determine if the right kidney has damage. Ok there is more than likely damage due to many recurring UTIs. Mention that one possibility is to remove right kidney and ureter. (Don't be stupid, that's not an option!)

So wife's issue is Vesicoureteral reflux. The right valve is not working properly which allows urine back into kidney. Why mention of removing kidney/ureter and not surgical options like ureteral reimplantation or endoscopic injection of a gel-like substance.

Surely endoscopic injection of gel-like substance is the best solution for patient. This is a day procedure. Surely cost should be a concern? Next option should be UTI vaccine.

Urology would not talk to me. The doctor that was looking after my wife had no idea about VUR endoscopic injection. We see Urology in 3 weeks. I need to push here and continue to do research. I may need to invoke Ryan' rule but that could take time. We need something sooner rather than later and not extreme.

How to find a GP to discuss? Do we go to private urologist? What would cost of endoscopic VUR treatment be? Urology has already done a cystoscopy so why not endoscopic VUR treatment. Lots of headaches and feel sorry for wife as she is the one suffering.
 
Palliative care or more like a nursing home environment?
I think palliative care in a hospital. I think his care needs might be higher than a nursing home and perhaps shorter lasting if the doctors are stopping all medications other than pain/comfort meds.
 
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So wife's issue is Vesicoureteral reflux
Ok so sounds like your wife is getting to a diagnosis which then opens up treatment options. However there is Primary VUR - more commonly diagnosed in younger patients - typically an impaired valve, and then secondary VUR. Am I correct your wife has got it in one ureter not both?

Urology has already done a cystoscopy so why not endoscopic VUR treatment. Lots of headaches and feel sorry for wife as she is the one suffering.
Your wife needs to see a urologist. There are several treatments that you have mentioned. Best to talk with urologist.
If you can't connect with urologist allocated to you and it sounds like you are having problems with outpatient clinics, then I would suggest get a referral to see one privately.
 
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Ok so sounds like your wife is getting to a diagnosis which then opens up treatment options. However there is Primary VUR - more commonly diagnosed in younger patients - typically an impaired valve, and then secondary VUR. Am I correct your wife has got it in one ureter not both?


Your wife needs to see a urologist. There are several treatments that you have mentioned. Best to talk with urologist.
If you can't connect with urologist allocated to you and it sounds like you are having problems with outpatient clinics, then I would suggest get a referral to see one privately.
I think you 100% correct.

Only right ureter and now right kidney have issue. Note overall kidney function is good. Let's see what MAG3 shows up first and then the next discussion with Urology Outpatients early December.

I want to be prepared. I want to know about treatment options, not wait for them to discuss. We can go private but is Medicare going to cover the Endoscopic VUR treatment?
 

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