I’ve managed to narrow my list down to three plus an honourable mention:
Best city hotel: Metropolitan by Como Bangkok. Amazingly chic, understated, calm oasis not far from Silom. The spa does great massages. Pool is divine, onsite restaurant Nahm is Michelin rated and also serves terrific a la carte breakfasts. I would t stay anywhere else in Bangkok.
Best architecture/setting: Kandalama Hotel Sigririya, Sri Lanka. Designed by acclaimed Sri Lankan architect Geoffrey Bawa, the hotel blends perfectly into its stunning environment, snaking for a length of almost a kilometre around a hillside.
Best for a relaxing holiday: Nukubati Island Resort, Fiji. Only seven rooms, nothing else on the island. No structure taller than a palm tree. Absolute water front villas and “service” is almost entirely dispensed with. Instead you feel embraced by a loving family. My happy place.
Honourable mention: Sofitel Melbourne for my favourite Australian 5 star city hotel. One of the few Australian properties that I think would earn five stars overseas