I suspect I must be the same.
In my ~2 years of WP now I have only been greeted by the CSM after take off a very small number of times, and this seems to have decreased still further lately. Apart from the few friendly FAs that recognize me on my regular routes, I am just another PAX deserving of nothing more than the minimum. In the last few months I can count the number of times I've even been called mrpooky during the meal service; more often it's, "We have the chicken or the fish."
I did have one flight recently a couple of days before my birthday when the CSM made the effort to wish me happy birthday, which I really appreciated, so I can only assume that the staff are still checking for status pax, but most often if we are in Y we are simply ignored. I've not ever seen one of these iPads actually in use either!
mrpooky.