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Recently, I experienced some cultural interaction which left me wondering about my own morals and also wondering about how our broader FFer community think.
This is definitely not a "right" or "wrong" thread, as I don't know which is right or which is wrong, but more just a general look "sideways" at our attitudes.
Many of you will know that I spend a lot of time in PNG. PNG is certainly a different culture to Australia (in fact PNG has many hundreds of different cultures within it's own borders, some fabulous ... some not so).
Previously, my travel has been to many nations worldwide, some of which I enjoy, some of which I have absolutely no desire in which to return. PNG amazes me and encapsulates me, for many more reasons than I can discuss here, but a recent episode profoundly left me wondering about my own ideals.
I was having a meal in POM with a friend of mine, originally from Manus Island when he noticed another man walking by. He called out to the man by name and wished him a good night. I was somewhat bewildered. The man he called out to was not your average Manus man. I asked him about this and he said he was a refugee, originally intent on venturing to Australia but ended up on Manus. The man had chosen to accept asylum in PNG and as such was now his wantok (community member). His interaction was genuine and sincere and despite the media reporting on problems on Manus, this indicated to me that acceptance was perhaps better than within the wider Australian community.
I've been a doubter of the Manus solution ever since I heard it. PNG (IMHO, which differs from the Gov't position) has an unemployment problem and dumping a lot of refugees in PNG, may present many problems. This very brief interlude has me wondering though. The man was gainfully employed in POM and appeared to be genuinely liking it. It also appeared that not only was he employed in POM, but he was accepted as a Manus man.
Curious.
Any other examples of how perceptions may not seamlessly integrate with reality?
This is definitely not a "right" or "wrong" thread, as I don't know which is right or which is wrong, but more just a general look "sideways" at our attitudes.
Many of you will know that I spend a lot of time in PNG. PNG is certainly a different culture to Australia (in fact PNG has many hundreds of different cultures within it's own borders, some fabulous ... some not so).
Previously, my travel has been to many nations worldwide, some of which I enjoy, some of which I have absolutely no desire in which to return. PNG amazes me and encapsulates me, for many more reasons than I can discuss here, but a recent episode profoundly left me wondering about my own ideals.
I was having a meal in POM with a friend of mine, originally from Manus Island when he noticed another man walking by. He called out to the man by name and wished him a good night. I was somewhat bewildered. The man he called out to was not your average Manus man. I asked him about this and he said he was a refugee, originally intent on venturing to Australia but ended up on Manus. The man had chosen to accept asylum in PNG and as such was now his wantok (community member). His interaction was genuine and sincere and despite the media reporting on problems on Manus, this indicated to me that acceptance was perhaps better than within the wider Australian community.
I've been a doubter of the Manus solution ever since I heard it. PNG (IMHO, which differs from the Gov't position) has an unemployment problem and dumping a lot of refugees in PNG, may present many problems. This very brief interlude has me wondering though. The man was gainfully employed in POM and appeared to be genuinely liking it. It also appeared that not only was he employed in POM, but he was accepted as a Manus man.
Curious.
Any other examples of how perceptions may not seamlessly integrate with reality?