leny - I think it is time for you to head over to Flyer Talk. There are literally hundreds of FFPs. Most are free to join (so NZ & QF are exceptions to the norm), although some restrict membership to certain countries (eg BA, BD). Expiry varies enormously. There are a couple of threads on the Miles Buzz forum of FT listing known expiry policies.
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