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Hi all,
I've been a reader for some time but not posted before, but I wanted to bring to light a pretty abysmal experience I had recently at the Qantas Club in Sydney recently.
NOTE: I already sent this info to Qantas Customer Service - they didn't even see fit to respond in the last 3 weeks.
I've changed names in this story.
TLDR: Qantas wouldn't let me into Qantas Club because their system was broken. I asked for a manager. Another staff member had a go at me. Manager called me a rude, aggressive, theatening misogynist.
Now, I don't fly Qantas often.
But on this occasion I was coming back from a work trip with my partner and a friend and had some lounge passes to use before they expired - probably my last chance.
I attempted to link them with my flight in advance but their system was down. I thought I would be able to get help at the lounge counter.
Boy, was I wrong.
The receptionist said they knew the system was down, but she couldn't help and I should call customer service. I did. Customer service couldn't access my details but said the receptionist was right in front of me and should be able to verify my details.
The receptionist said she wasn't able to make that call and I asked if the manager could make the decision - she called for the manager (I'll call him "Paul") to come out.
Next, her female colleage came out and had a go at me, telling me I'd already been told I couldn't come in and that was the end of it and I needed to leave.
I was confused - This wasn't Paul? I looked at her name badge. Sarah. Nope, not Paul.
I asked who she was and what role she had (maybe the duty manager?) but it came out a bit wrong, as though I was putting her down. I tried to apologise and say I wasn't meaning to be rude when she told me that I was, in fact, a very rude person.
At this point, I said I'd better wait for the manager. She disappeared out back.
Paul came out next, and I thought my problems were over. We introduced outselves, and shook hands.
Then he said, "I've just been told you've been aggressive and rude to my staff, and you threatened to report them."
Now, I'm about as assertive as they come. And I really wanted to use those passes before they went to waste. But aggressive and rude? I don't think so.
I challenged that and said I was speaking to them the same way I was speaking to him. My partner even came to my defence at this point - it was insulting.
Then he said something I've never been accused of before in my life:
"You're talking differently to me because we are talking one-on-one as men."
I've never been accused of being sexist or a misogynist before. It took a moment for me to process what he'd actually said to me. Meanwhile, my partner had a gutful and told him he was acting unacceptably. Things were getting way out of hand.
Then Paul suddenly changed his tune. "I'll let you in. Be nice to us, we are nice to you, everything is fine."
I looked back at Paul, confused. Then at my partner, and then at my friend, who Paul had just realised was filming the conversation on his phone.
Paul let us in. But I felt disgusted at being called those things, and like I was scum in a place I wasn't welcome in. In the time we had left (now barely 40 minutes until departure) I barely ate or drank, so I guess my passes were kind of wasted anyway.
Has anyone else ever been made by Qantas to feel like you aren't worth their time, or blatantly accused you of acting in an unacceptable way?
OR tell me if I should have walked away at the counter and saved myself the trouble.
I've been a reader for some time but not posted before, but I wanted to bring to light a pretty abysmal experience I had recently at the Qantas Club in Sydney recently.
NOTE: I already sent this info to Qantas Customer Service - they didn't even see fit to respond in the last 3 weeks.
I've changed names in this story.
TLDR: Qantas wouldn't let me into Qantas Club because their system was broken. I asked for a manager. Another staff member had a go at me. Manager called me a rude, aggressive, theatening misogynist.
Now, I don't fly Qantas often.
But on this occasion I was coming back from a work trip with my partner and a friend and had some lounge passes to use before they expired - probably my last chance.
I attempted to link them with my flight in advance but their system was down. I thought I would be able to get help at the lounge counter.
Boy, was I wrong.
The receptionist said they knew the system was down, but she couldn't help and I should call customer service. I did. Customer service couldn't access my details but said the receptionist was right in front of me and should be able to verify my details.
The receptionist said she wasn't able to make that call and I asked if the manager could make the decision - she called for the manager (I'll call him "Paul") to come out.
Next, her female colleage came out and had a go at me, telling me I'd already been told I couldn't come in and that was the end of it and I needed to leave.
I was confused - This wasn't Paul? I looked at her name badge. Sarah. Nope, not Paul.
I asked who she was and what role she had (maybe the duty manager?) but it came out a bit wrong, as though I was putting her down. I tried to apologise and say I wasn't meaning to be rude when she told me that I was, in fact, a very rude person.
At this point, I said I'd better wait for the manager. She disappeared out back.
Paul came out next, and I thought my problems were over. We introduced outselves, and shook hands.
Then he said, "I've just been told you've been aggressive and rude to my staff, and you threatened to report them."
Now, I'm about as assertive as they come. And I really wanted to use those passes before they went to waste. But aggressive and rude? I don't think so.
I challenged that and said I was speaking to them the same way I was speaking to him. My partner even came to my defence at this point - it was insulting.
Then he said something I've never been accused of before in my life:
"You're talking differently to me because we are talking one-on-one as men."
I've never been accused of being sexist or a misogynist before. It took a moment for me to process what he'd actually said to me. Meanwhile, my partner had a gutful and told him he was acting unacceptably. Things were getting way out of hand.
Then Paul suddenly changed his tune. "I'll let you in. Be nice to us, we are nice to you, everything is fine."
I looked back at Paul, confused. Then at my partner, and then at my friend, who Paul had just realised was filming the conversation on his phone.
Paul let us in. But I felt disgusted at being called those things, and like I was scum in a place I wasn't welcome in. In the time we had left (now barely 40 minutes until departure) I barely ate or drank, so I guess my passes were kind of wasted anyway.
Has anyone else ever been made by Qantas to feel like you aren't worth their time, or blatantly accused you of acting in an unacceptable way?
OR tell me if I should have walked away at the counter and saved myself the trouble.